One of those tiny little things…
May 8, 2008 by charismania
Having grown up in a pretty conservative, Bible-teaching Evangelical church, one of the values I absorbed was having respect for God’s name. At the Christian school I attended as a child, it was even frowned upon to use the exclamation of, “Oh my gosh!” So ingrained in me was this viewpoint that, although I realize that this is a shallow (and, obviously, unreliable) litmus test, if I heard someone say, “Oh God!” in a fashion that was not seriously prayerful, I generally assumed that this person did not share my basic outlook on God’s Word.
So when, several years ago, we made the jump from our more staid Evangelical/Baptist church to an independent Charismatic congregation, one of the tiny little things that bothered me from the get-go was the way our pastor - whom I’ll call “Pastor Smith,” though that is a pseudonym - would often use the expression, “My God!” when he was preaching or ministering.
As far as I could tell, he did not do it in a way that was respectful or prayerful. Instead, he would inject this exclamation into his sermons or into times of “ministry” (when he was prophesying or praying for people) to give his own words extra emphasis. The phrase was never addressed to God Himself.
My gut reaction always was that when he’d do this, Pastor Smith was taking the Lord’s name in vain.
Of course, as the years passed, I pretty much forced myself to get used to it. I told myself that it was cultural. Certainly, just about every Charismatic/Word of Faith preacher I heard seemed to do the same thing. During our time at Living Word Church (another pseudonym), we were privy to appearances by folks such as Gary Oliver, Paula White, Jesse DuPlantis, and T.D. Jakes, all of whom frequently interjected “My God!” while preaching, primarily for dramatic effect (I could never see any other reason for it). When I’d watch other Charismatic luminaries (like Juanita Bynum) on TBN, I’d hear more of the same.
A part of me - the part that wanted to buy into every last little aspect of my new Word of Faith outlook - figured that I was just being legalistic and stuffy when Pastor Smith’s seemingly irreverent use of “My God!” continued to trouble me. But I could never fully get over the unsettling jolt that would shoot through my heart when he would do this.
I’m not someone given to dramatic exaggerations, either - I would literally feel a sickening stab in my gut whenever Pastor Smith would practically interrupt himself to shout, “My God!” It was even worse when he would use the phrase, “Oh God” in a sort of sarcastic way, like when he was being humorous with his audience and rolling his eyes at them for something or other. He didn’t do this as often, but whenever he did, I almost couldn’t get past it to hear the rest of his sermon, no matter how hard I tried.
I was thinking about this recently, in part because I stumbled upon a site discussing the much-trumpeted “revival” led by Todd Bentley, which is currently taking place in Lakeland, Florida. While watching some clips of Mr. Bentley ministering at these meetings, it suddenly occurred to me that here was yet another Charismatic preacher who did the exact same thing - who used God’s name in a way that was more like swearing rather than prayerfully, reverently addressing the Lord.
I don’t really have anything profound to say about this practice, except that I find it interesting that so many of these guys (and gals) openly break one of the Ten Commandments from the pulpit. Why is this OK? Why do these folks do this? Why do the Christians sitting in the pews - many of whom would never themselves use God’s name as an irreverent exclamation - tolerate it?
I’m wondering if perhaps this is one of those obvious signs, something “hidden in plain sight,” that perhaps ought to alert us to when all is not right? That perhaps we shouldn’t be so shocked when these same ministers violate other commandments, dabbling in dishonesty or adultery?

Charismania,
I’m another one that feels the same gut level pain when I hear the Lord’s name used in that way. And lilke you I have tried to put it aside. With me it wasn’t the pastor but other people I know. I’m sure if you asked them, they would all deny using the Lord’s name in vain, but myself, I can’t see it any other way.
Hi, Cheryl…
You know, I have thought and thought about this over the years, but try as I might, I cannot think of how else to describe Pastor Smith’s (and others’ ) use of the exclamation, “My God.” They never said it in a prayerful way. It was an interjection used to give emphasis to their own words. It was NOT addressed to God Himself.
If using God’s name as an interjection to emphasize one’s own speech isn’t “taking the Lord’s name in vain,” I’m not sure what is.
I’d love to see an explanation of what they think they are doing with this. It’s my guess that they could not actually defend their use of “My God” - I’ll bet anyone defending these ministers would simply turn this all back on me, saying that the problem is just mine.
Because, there can’t really be any other reason. This carelessness with God’s name needs to stop.
When I grew up, you would never hear a woman swear or use vulgar language, at least not in the circles I was in. Only men who weren’t Christians ever talked like that. Then, over a period of time, I started hearing it coming from women too. Next thing I knew I was it was starting to creep into the church. Now vulgar language and using the Lord’s name in vain are not at all rare any place.
I suppose it is the result of a careless cultural conditioning on people’s part. The boiled frog syndrome if you will. I agree with you completely. It certainly isn’t right and it needs to stop.
By the way, I have enjoyed your blog too. It always helps to know that you aren’t the only one out there that just can’t go along with all of the stuff they see in the church these days. The blog world was a great help to me as I was coming out of all of this.
On the other hand, if we all had a proper reverence, fear of, and love of God, how would we ever let the culture dictate to us as Christians in any way? There is something sadly lacking in most of American Christianity today. As I have been thinking about this, I have become convicted of some things I have been letting happen in my own life that I definetly need to deal with too. I’m glad you did this post!
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Rom 16:18 For they that are such serve not our Lord Jesus Christ, but their own belly; and by good words and fair speeches deceive the hearts of the simple.
Eph 5:6 Let no man deceive you with vain words: for because of these things cometh the wrath of God upon the children of disobedience.
2Cr 11:13 For such [are] false apostles, deceitful workers, transforming themselves into the apostles of Christ. And no marvel; for Satan himself is transformed into an angel of light. Therefore [it is] no great thing if his ministers also be transformed as the ministers of righteousness